Is Sex So Powerful?

I gather from the bible that sex is meant for married couples for pro-creation and not necessarily for pleasure. Our fore fathers were somehow obedient to this.

You will agree with me that in the current society most marriages happen and break due to the selfish desire for sex. People come together to fulfill their sexual urges with no real in the picture and in the event, babies are formed. The fear of ladies to give birth out of wedlock and the fear of the men to see their babies being raised by someone else or away from them ultimately leads to unions. The unions might seem rosy in the beginning due to the babies’ en-route, but along the line misunderstandings start to crop up when they realize they are total strangers living together. Starting to learn each other might take a hell of fights which might result in breakups. Only the strong willed can surmount this stage and end up staying married for good or for better for worse.

Sex has also been taken miles further by us humans. Why should men sleep with animals? Is the desire too strong that it cannot be controlled? Why should a teacher give three of his under aged female students 15 shillings each just so as he can take advantage of their innocence? Why should three me of sane mind sleep with a mentally challenged 15 year old girl? Why should a 4 year old be defiled by a 34 year old man, murdered after the act and through into the river? Why should a father infect his 8 year old daughter with HIV/AIDs thanks to his belief that by doing so the effect of the virus in his body will plummet? And the most recent, why should a father defend the defilers of his 8 year old daughter citing that she is old enough and therefore well placed to take care of herself? How many ills shall be committed by this selfish desire for sex for people to sober up?

Everything is meant to happen at the right time. Those defiling innocent girls and ruining innocent lives should be ashamed of themselves. Why subject a fourteen year old to the stress of carrying a pregnancy? Why make a baby bring another baby to the world? Why does it appear like people cannot do without sex? Is it food that without it people can starve to death? Is it oxygen that without having it for seconds’ lives can be lost? Sex is sweet but, can’t we just abstain and wait for the right time? How many abortions must happen? How many marriages must break due to being rushed into? How many ladies must ruin their wombs with pills for fear of unwanted pregnancies? Yes pregnancies might be prevented but what about HIV/AIDs?

First things first, pleasure later! Wear the school uniform, wear the graduation gown, walk down the aisle in your wedding dress/suit and then finally for ladies, wear the coveted maternity gown! All in due time!